How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 12:28
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
What can you do if someone makes a false accusation against you?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
That's it for today.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Would Donald Trump's reelection make the world more dangerous?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Do married men know when their wives are having affairs?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
I've never read the book. What did Dorian Grey do that was so immoral and sinful?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Procrastinates a lot.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
I am 13 and I am planning to run away. What should I do to succeed?
Making more friends is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Have you been arrested or investigated?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Does not procrastinate.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Do you think the constitution and laws should be taught in school?
Ask yourself:
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
What I need from you?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Is there an MBTI personality that is more or less likely to handle stress?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?